If it just happened
Free, and it stays free.
Do not decide anything big this week.
That is the whole of the advice for the first few days, and it is not a delaying tactic. You are being asked to make a ten year decision with a nervous system that has been braced since the day it happened, and those two things do not go together.
Find out whether you are in a state to decide
Four questions, about two minutes. If it tells you to stop for today, that is a real answer and not a failure. Nothing gets decided and nothing gets lost.
Two minutesWork out how long the money actually lasts
What you can reach, against what a month really costs when it is stripped back. Then the same number against how long a move like yours takes. This is the one that changes what your options are, and most people have never put it on paper.
Ten minutesIf the answer is bad, there is a page for that
A lot of people get to the end of that arithmetic and find there is no good move in their situation. If that is you, nothing on the rest of this site is going to help and there is one page that is not trying to.
Read that instead
If this is more than a planning problem. Say it to a person rather than sitting with it on your own. In the United States, 988 reaches somebody by call or by text, any hour. Elsewhere, findahelpline.com lists the lines where you are.
No account, no email, and nothing you type leaves this browser tab. There is no timer and nothing expires. When you are ready for the rest of it, the whole method is seven steps and it is also free, or here is what it is.
The Bearings Framework, from Tame The Noise. This is an instrument and nobody is on the other end of it.